Month: June 2015

Are you a shower or bath person?

They say that water can really intensify the sexual sensation. and a lot of escorts say that they feel the same way about water. Many escorts in London that I know have installed jacuzzi style bath tubs in their apartments, and most escorts say that they enjoy them as much as their dates.
It is true that a shower or bath can help you to relax more, and escorts like to make the most of this. As a matter of fact, most escorts now ask their dates to take a shower if they are visiting for an incall.

The question is, are you into showers or baths? Personally, I like a bit both. Showers can be great fun together with the right partner, and we have a nice ensuite that we like to make the most of. It is easy to lock the door and share a shower together with my husband.

Baths are okay as well, but they tend to take longer and at the end of the day we are all trying to save water these days. If you have been into the shops recently you will have noticed that many stores are adding more and more products to their bath and shower ranges. The last time I visited Boots I picked up an excellent shower gel which both my husband and I enjoy. It contains the herb rosemary, and this means that it stimulates blood circulation, just in case you want to have extra fun in the shower.

Fun things to do in the shower

We have only had full sex a couple of times in the shower. The last time was in the US, and my husband by mistake pressed the power shower button. It was a bit of a surprise but it made us both laugh.

Giving a partner a wash in the shower can be a really sensual experience. It can be caring and sexual at the same time. My husband loves to share a shower with me, and I must say that he gives the most amazing deep cleans when we are in the shower together. The fun continues once we have finished our shower, I love to towel him off and he gives me the same pleasure. It is just a different way of touching, stroking and being together.

There are some nice lotions you can use, and why not take the opportunity to give your partner a mini massage after you have finished your shower. Also, remember that there are some sex toys which are safe to use in the shower, and that can just add some extra depth to your shower experience.

Fun things to do in the bath

The bath can be fun as well but you want to be a bit careful. Hot water can easily knacker a guy, and this is something that you don’t want. Fucking in the bath is a bit easier than in the shower. Ladies can always lean over the edge of the tub, or you can sit across. One tip, don’t have the water too high. If the water is too high, it will splash out all over the place and you will have a clear up job on your hands. Most of us don’t fancy having to spend hours cleaning the bath tub when we could be cuddling up in bed instead.

Showering or taking a bath together is just another way of sharing a sensual experience, so why not try it?

How to look after your gentleman caller

The Better Sex Guide like to promote all sorts of escorts services and practices. This week we received an email from a lady who works as part of a team of independent Canary Wharf escorts. She is new to the business, and would like to know how to look after her gentlemen callers.

To be honest, this is one of the best letters we have ever received here at the Better Sex Guide, and we thought that we would put together an article for all beginner Canary Wharf escorts and other escorts. I would like to welcome you all into the business, and say that I know that many Canary Wharf escorts are very busy indeed. Canary Wharf is now a huge part of the business community here in London, and it is nice to see more Canary Wharf escorts joining the ranks.

The problem is that it is very difficult to start from scratch in the escorts business, and it could be a good idea to apply to an agency. Escorts agencies are often run by madams who will help to train new escorts, and explain how to look after gentlemen callers. This is often the best way to start, and during the watchful eye of a madam, you will learn a lot. As yet. there are no official schools or academies here in the UK that offer escort training, and you would have to go to Austria to enjoy the services of one of those.

fun and excitement here at canary wharf escorts
fun and excitement here at canary wharf escorts

The first thing you should remember is to be polite, and not use any explicit language at all. Some gents like explicit language others do not. This is a very important point to remember, and is often a mistake than many new comers to the business make. It is easy to think that a gent is there to enjoy your sexy companionship, but what happens if he would just like to talk? You need to think and plan ahead as an escort.

Ask to take your gent’s coat and any service payment can be discreetly left in a little box. You will find that most gents who seek your services know what is required and are only to happy to comply with all the requirements.

Depending on what kind of services your gentleman caller is looking for, you should ask him to take a shower. Make sure that your bath room is nice and tidy, and that you have comfortable towels for him to use. The hygiene products should be nice as well.

After your gent has enjoyed a shower, ask him to make himself comfortable. He can slip on his clothes again, or alternatively slip into a dressing gown that you lend him. You need to invest in several gowns, and some of the top departments stores sell lovely robes.

After that you should ask him what his pleasure is and make sure that you practice all your skills in a safe environment. Once you know that you can accommodate your gent, close the door and just relax. Turn it into an art form and never let it become a matter of fact habit.

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Weird and wonderful fantasies

We all dream and have sexual fantasies, and some of them are very different. A group of London escorts recently asked our resident sex expert Dr Annie Bliss about sexual fantasies. Some of the London escorts who visited our offices though that some gents they meet have the oddest fantasies, and they cannot understand where they all come from. Dr Bliss was quick to point out that sexual fantasies our healthy, and they go to prove that our bodies our healthy and we can still enjoy sex.

Sex and Fantasies

So, where do sexual fantasies come from? Dr Bliss explained to the London escorts that we don’t know where all of our fantasies come from. We seem to have dark recesses in our minds that for some reason or other seem to be able to create the most bizarre fantasies. For most of the time, they are perfectly healthy and that London escorts should not worry about them. Most fantasies will forever remain fantasies and we will not get around to playing them out. As a matter of fact, if we played some of our fantasies out, she told the London escorts, we would end up being disappointed.

Entering Fantasy Land

How should we approach our fantasies, and should we indeed try to live them out to make them real? Dr Bliss told the London escorts that many men and women would like to act their fantasies out. However, Dr Bliss also pointed out to the assembled London escorts, that many fantasies can be dangerous to act out as we may get emotionally hurt. A common fantasy is to have sex with many partners, but this is a fantasy that can go very badly wrong. She told the London escorts that this fantasy can lead to feeling of guilt, and jealousy as we may become jealous of our partner. Swingers sometimes say that they may feel a touch of jealousy or envy when they party, but they do also have very much of a party sexual attitude towards many things sex.

If you do fancy experimenting in sex fantasy land, you should talk you fantasy through with your partner first of all, Dr Bliss pointed out to the London escorts. It could be that your partner does not get turned in by your fantasy, and may not want to participate. Then it becomes very important to recognize and respect this fact.

Unusual Fantasies

One of the London escorts said that the most unusual fantasies that she had come across was a gentleman who wanted to have sex on balcony with several Sexy London escorts. He wanted to be watched by people on the surrounding balconies as he was taking his pleasure, and afterwards he wanted them all to come over to rate the performance of his ladies. After that, they would all have one mass orgy that would go on for hours.

Dr Bliss said to the London escorts that it seemed a bit unusual but this just had to do with sex in public places, and many partners. It just combined to of the most common fantasies, and made it into one.